THE MARRIAGE QUIZ.

They say marriages are made in heaven ..is yours one of those ? Take this quiz to find out :

Answer the following questions to see how you are doing.Use the following three point scale to rate how often you experience the following:
1 = Never of almost never
2 = Once in awhile
3 = Frequently


And the questions are :

• Little arguments escalate into ugly fights with accusations,criticisms,name calling or bringing up past hurts.
• My partner criticizes or belittles my opinions ,feelings, or desires.
• My partner seems to view my words or actions more negatively than I mean them to be.
• when w+e have a problem to solve,it is like we are opposite teams.
• I hold back from telling my partner what I really think and feel.
• I feel lonely in this relationship.
• When we argue, one of us withdraws, that is, doesn't want to talk about it anymore or leaves the scene.

Interpret your score here:

• 7 to 11: 'Green light' your marriage is probably in good or even great shape at this time.To put it easily,it's like you are travelling along and have come to green light.Ther is no need to stop, but it in fact may be great time to work on making your relationship all it can be.
• 12 to 16:'yellow light' You need to be cautious.While you may be happy now in your marriage, your score reveals warning signs.You'll want to be taking action to protect and improve what you have.Spending time to strengthen your marriage now could be the best thing you could do for your future together.
• 17 to 21: 'Red light If you have scored in this range, it's like approaching a red light.It's time to stop and think about where your marriage is headed.Your score indicates the presence of patterns that could put your marriage at significant risk.You may be heading for trouble,or may already be there.But there is good news, you can stop and learn ways to improve your marriage now!